When 13- To 90-Year-Olds Talk About Sex

How does sex change from adolescence to adulthood? We asked couples ages 13 to 90 to tell us everything about their sex lives. From favorite positions to first-time stories, we got all the dirty details. We hope their parents aren't watching.

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The Sex Toys You Didn't Know You Needed

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The Sex Toys You Didn't Know You Needed

We're great fans of accessorizing in the bedroom. Au naturel stimulation is wonderful, but sex toys can do things that people just can't. The sex toy industry is now attracting an impressive $15 billion a year in global sales, and with a plethora of clever products at a range of prices on the market, we're spoiled for choice. This also means that smart shopping can be tricky.

To help you cut through the noise, we're curating a roundup of some of our favorite picks. We've got you covered with everything from silky lube that will take both your partnered and solo play to the next level to a bullet that packs a surprising punch. Click through to browse some seriously sexy finds, and check back as we continue to add more. You might discover something you never knew you needed. Happy shopping!

You may think that all lubes are created pretty much equal. You'd be wrong. This lube is to other lubes what silk underwear is to a spandex blend.

Trojan Continuous Silkiness Lubricant, $12.19, available at Target.

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We love the modular concept behind the Ooh By Je Joue vibrator collection: One motor and many attachments make for some exciting combinations.

Ooh By Je Joue London Collection No. 1 & No. 3, $95, available at Fab.

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Design-oriented sex toy company Crave's newest product is a sleek bullet vibe that is waterproof and USB rechargeable, with a recessed button that helps people avoid unintentionally changing the speed or turning it off.

Crave Bullet Vibrator, $45-75, available at Crave.

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For the décor-minded, this gorgeous green aventurine dildo is just as alluring on your mantle as in your vagina.

Chakrubs The Original Indian Jade, $150, available at Chakrubs.

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For those of you who are serious about your sex toy collections, the elegant, discreet Moi Box Deluxe is the perfect place to hygienically store and organize your treasures.

Plume Moi Box Deluxe, $99.99, available at Plume.

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This blindfold isn't designed for using during sex, but many that are let in potentially scene-ruining amounts of light. If you're looking for total darkness in your bondage play, the Mindfold is for you.

Mindfold Sleep and Relaxation Eye Mask, $12, available at Amazon.

Photo: Courtesy of Mindfold.

The 10-inch Stronic Eins isn't for everyone, but those who like it love it. Rather than vibrating, this toy thrusts. Yes, like a penis. As one Stronic Eins enthusiast told me, "I lie there lazily like a dead fish and let it do the work!"

Fun Factory Stronic Eins, $189.99, available at Fun Factory.

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This wand is the LBD of sex toys: reliable, makes you feel amazing, and belongs in everyone's collection.

Hitachi Magic Wand Rechargeable, $124.95, available at Babeland.

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The Duet is ideal for women who like their toys on the subtler (and less phallic) side, and its unique, pronged shape offers a range of possible sensations for any body.

Crave Duet, $149, available at Crave.

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Not all handcuffs are metal (nor should they be, ouch). These classy suede-and-silk babies set a more romantic mood.

LELO ETHEREA Silk Cuffs, $59, available at LELO.

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What's better than nipple clamps? Vibrating nipple clamps.

Good Vibrations Nipple Teasers Vibrating Nipple Clamps, $29, available at Good Vibrations.

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If you're interested in exploring anal play, these graduated-size beads on a flexible shaft offer an approachable, affordable point of entry.

California Exotic Novelties Booty Beads Silicone Anal Beads, $12, available at Good Vibrations.

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Some penis rings are so inflexible as to be uncomfortable, but this stretchy, vibrating iteration is a joy for everyone involved.

Lovehoney Bionic Bullet 5 Function Vibrating Cock Ring, $22.99, available at Lovehoney.

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This darling little toy has arms that nestle in your labia to provide you with hands-free clitoral stimulation.

Dame Products Eva, $105, available at Dame Products.

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We love this cheery little vibrator for its genius user interface: Instead of fumbling with buttons, you set its intensity by squeezing it. Harder squeezing equals more intense vibrations.

Minna Life Limon, $119, available at Minna Life.

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If you're a flogging newbie, remember to read up on technique and take it slow (and communicate!).

Bondage Boutique Intermediate Thick Suede Flogger, $30, available at Lovehoney.

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This ejaculating, strap-on dildo has a sweet backstory: Its creator, Stephanie Berman, developed the toy so that she could get her wife pregnant without using the traditional and utterly unromantic turkey baster or needleless syringe. (Their daughter Isabella is about to celebrate her second birthday.) POP is now a favorite among both people looking to get pregnant and people who love ejaculation.

Berman Innovations POP, $139.95, available at POP.

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If you're interested in anal play but want to ease your way into it and work your way up, this set is for you.

Adam & Eve Booty Boot Camp Training Kit, $29.95, available at Adam & Eve.

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A luxurious little blindfold that can double as a sleep mask, if you like.

Bijoux Indiscrets Shhh — Blindfold, $15.50, available at Bijoux Indiscrets.


When burned, massage candles transform into oil that can heat up your skin-to-skin contact. Can everything in our life smell like Babeland's smoky, delicious Tobacco Sandalwood scent please? (Just remember not to use massage candles with latex products, such as condoms.)

Babeland Massage Candle, $6 to $16, available at Babeland.

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Because bondage tape sticks to itself rather than skin, it's secure while you use it and easy to take off afterward — no complicated rope-tying or -untying required.

The Pleasure Chest Pleasure Tape, $9.95, available at The Pleasure Chest.

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We were first drawn to this toy because of its adorable seahorse shape. Turns out, it's also the perfect shape for hitting both your G-spot and clit.

Fun Factory Delight Click N Charge, $119.95, available at The Pleasure Chest.

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Yeah, the name is unfortunate, but this thing works wonders. Its gentle sucking draws blood to the clit, which can lead to explosive orgasms (yes, plural).

Womanizer Womanizer Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator, $189, available at Good Vibrations.

Full-body bondage with minimal set-up: All you need is a bed.

Sportsheets Under The Bed Restraint System, $76.99, available at Sportsheets.

A dab of this all-natural formula delivers a pleasant, tingling sensation where it counts. Your clit, to be specific. (Again, don't use this with latex.)

Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel, $3.50 to $19, available at Babeland.

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If food in the bedroom is your thing, you'll love this rich milk chocolate body paint.

The Kama Sutra Company Lover's Body Paint — Chocolate Caress, $13.99, available at DermStore.

Photo: Courtesy of The Kama Sutra Company.

We're super amped to try the Lioness vibrator when it's out in the fall. This smart vibe records vaginal temperature and motion and connects with an app that delivers users insight into their sex lives — from how long it takes them to get aroused to when in their menstrual cycles sex might feel best. Since the fundraising campaign for it was launched on Indiegogo on February 9, it has already attracted $76,000, which is $26,000 more than its initial goal of $50,000. Hop over to Indiegogo to claim yours.

Lioness Lioness, $199, available at Indiegogo.

This elegant pendant necklace is actually a vibrator — and unsurprisingly, one of our favorite accessories.

Crave Vesper, $69, available at Crave.

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We're not shy about our love of penis rings. This strong and flexible version can take simultaneous orgasm during opposite-sex intercourse from pipe dream to reality.

Je Joue Mio, $109, available at Fab.

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These sturdy, easy-to-use cuffs get the job done.

Good Vibrations Bound To Please Neoprene Restraints, $17.00, available at Good Vibrations.

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Deliciously weighty, silky-smooth anal plugs in three sizes or avant-garde conversation pieces for your mantel? You decide.

Njoy Plugs, $60, available at Early2Bed.

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Designed for use during intercourse, We-Vibe's Fling is flexible, quiet, and USB-rechargeable — and oh, did we mention that you can even buy it at CVS?

We-Vibe Fling, $79.99, available at We-Vibe.

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LELO's INA Wave combines powerful vibrations with targeted G-spot stimulation for a very satisfying orgasm indeed.

LELO INA Wave, $199, available at LELO.

Image: Courtesy of LELO.

This isn't a sex toy, but it will do wonders for your sex life. This comprehensive tome from Babeland founders Clare Cavanah and Rachel Venning covers everything from birth control to BDSM; its illustrated sex-position guides will bust you out of your bedroom rut, stat.

Babeland Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex, $22.50, available at Babeland.

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This vegan, latex-friendly herbal infusion heightens the sensitivity of your clit. It can help you reach orgasm more easily (and feel like a tingly goddess in the process). Start with a pea-sized amount, because it's powerful.

Wicked Sensual Care Awaken Stimulating Clitoral Massaging Gel, $19.99, available at PinkCherry.

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This powerful, ribbed vibrator pulsates and thrusts to mimic the sensations of intercourse.

Fun Factory STRONIC DREI, $189.99, available at Fun Factory.

Photo: Courtesy of Fun Factory.

We love the flexibility and texture of jelly-rubber penis rings, but we don't love the toxic plastic softeners in them. Enter Jimmyjane's elastomer ring, which mimics the feel of jelly rubber with none of the phthalates. Use with a water-based lube and go chase that simultaneous orgasm.

Jimmyjane Iconic Ring, $20, available at Jimmyjane.

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If you like your lube and arousal gel organic and body-safe, you'll love this duo — and if you haven't yet tried arousal gel, we strongly encourage it.

Jimmyjane SLIP & ZING, $25, available at Jimmyjane.

Photo: Courtesy of Jimmyjane.

Instead of thinking of your G-spot as a magical love button that will drive you wild if only you can find it, think of it as a region of sensitive tissue located on the "front" (anterior) wall of the vagina that can feel wonderful when stimulated. Ask your partner to make a "come hither" motion with his or her fingers inside you, or give this boomerang-shaped baby a whirl. Its ergonomic design makes solo G-spot adventures a cinch.

We-Vibe Rave, $119, available at We-Vibe.

Photo: Courtesy of We-Vibe.

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The Penis Pal penis extender has been scientifically designed for optimal comfort and performance, it has the ability to be adjusted to any penis size, so it does not matter what your starting size is. It uses the scientific method of increase by gradual tension you can stretch your penis for permanent gains of up to 1 inch per month, this can be achieved by wearing the device for between 3 - 6 hours per day.
Usual Price: $199.95  Today's Price: $99.95    
With the ultimate mens sex device you will get 3 inserts (Butt, vagina, mouth) included in the standard package.

The Cock Torch is also very versatile in that it can be used not only for self pleasuring but could also be introduced into couples sex play very easily, much the same way many couples often use vibrators during sex play on the woman.
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This amazing silicon vagina, is the perfect companion to keep you warm at night, it is an easy to use male masturbation toy. comes complete with realistic pubic hair. Makes masturbating a whole lot more satisfying than just using your hand.
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She moves, vibrates and has audio. All at adjustable speeds, with a  tight hole. Have your spanish girl any time.
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She is always ready, and no complaining. Silicon vagina and anus, Free pump!
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The Natalia Doll is a near to human life sized doll that has all the common orifices that a real girl would have, including a mouth, vagina and anal hole. Blow it up for all night action , or can be packed away in a very small compact box. Hours of fun can be enjoyed with this feature packed blow up doll.
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This is a Dual Action Prostate Stimulator, that simultaneously stimulates the prostate gland, also known as the male P spot, and the perineum for an intense prostate orgasm. Prostate Stimulation, or prostate milking, does not only provide sexual excitement, but is actually a beneficial health practice. A few notable benefits of prostate stimulation are:

-Promotes healthy prostate function

-Reduces the build up of prostatic fluid

-Prevents harmful bacteria from clogging prostate ducts
-Improves blood flow to the prostate gland tissue

-Improved urine flow

batteries included
Usual Price: $75.95  Today's Price: $45.00   

7 Penis sleeves (1 weeks supply). Give her the most pleasurable sex by wearing a penis sleeve.
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Vibrating cockring, with 1hr of vibration time. Not only good for increasing pleasure of both partners, but also helps with erection function
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The vibrating butt plug, is the ideal toy for those who love anal pleasure. 10cm insertable length with adjustable speeds to bring you the best anal orgasms.
Usual Price: $35.95  Today's Price: $25.00   

The Pussy Pal vibrator is a variable-speed twirling vibe with an awesome rabbit shaped clitoral stimulator. It features separate controls for the rotation speed and the vibration speed. PussyPal is perfect for beginners but powerful enough to please even the most experienced of users. You've thought about it, read about it, talked to girlfriends about it, and fantasized about it forever. But until now, you haven't found the right vibe that you've felt comfortable experimenting with. Well ladies, the wait is finally over! Make your first intimate encounter a thrilling one with this incredible rotating vibe. It twirls, it twists, and massages deep inside for a mind blowing finish every time.

This item requires 4 AA batteries (not included).

Usual Price: $75.95  Today's Price: $59.95